Stories

We have guardianship, it is not enough

Andy and her partner, Joss, have a foster daughter, Ruby, who is eight years old*. She has been in this placement since she was three months of age. Ruby does not have contact with either…

Lost in a mire of paperwork

Kara was placed with Emma as a foster child at age 11*. Kara had been in the foster care system for some years and had had many placements and negative experiences in care. By the…

My Story, My Connections: Tracey

I don’t know exactly when my birth mother found out that she was pregnant with me. I have no idea how far long she was when she realised that she was in this situation. She…

Changemaker Mummas & Pappas

Bringing your “calm” for kids. In the first weeks of becoming a new parent to siblings with a trauma history, I asked a case manager “How can we stay calm”? Visualise being new to parenting,…

When you think your ears may drop off!!

Not sure about you, but there have been plenty of times as a parent when I felt sure my ears would drop off. I mean, kids talk sooo much. And typically not in an inside…

Building your tribe

At 17 I was selected to represent Australia for sport. Within six months I had collapsed on court, was told I had a heart condition and suddenly all my sponsors and supporters had disappeared!  I…

Long live Rosie the Hen

Attachment plays such a crucial role when we are caring for children who have had less than ideal starts in life, but what happens when their attachment causes grief? Living in the country we have…